Chapter 8 - The Subconscious Mind Is The Key To Self-Influence

Suppose someone came up to you and said: "Here, I'm putting $1,000,000 at your disposal. Get going on that wonderful idea you've been dreaming about. I'll be your silent partner, but you call all the shots!"

What would you do? Would you take the money? Sure you would! You might think that the fellow was crazy, but certainly you wouldn't argue with such a benefactor.

Well, I know that neither you nor anyone else is going to hold his breath until such a miracle comes his way. But you can make another kind of miracle happen, for yourself, because you do have a silent partner worth one million dollars!

A million dollar value

Perhaps this sounds like we are kicking around a million dollars like a government appropriations committee. But that's spending money. The million I'm referring to is buying money. If you could have the kind of a life you want, wouldn't it be worth a million? Well, that's exactly what you can "buy" with the help of this silent partner of yours, a "million dollar value" for yourself. Just keep that thought in mind, and let's you and I take time out to talk about it.

We've been going along a pretty steady clip on this "sightseeing tour" of life, and I'd like you to take a bit of a breather while we just chat for a few moments. We're about to take off in a new direction and see some most unusual "sights." Before we do, I want you to put a completely intimate, personal slant on what has happened so far.

I am pretty sure that by now you have gotten a lot of things sorted out, about yourself, about other people and about why things are as they are with humans. But I am also sure that about now you feel as though you could use some help. You may feel that I have dangled a wonderful "promise" just out of your reach and that if you grab for it, it is likely to elude you.
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DON'T grab for it! You will get a handful of "nothing" if you try. There is a "promise" right in front of you. The whole point in stopping a moment here is to show you how to turn that "promise" into a certainty, just by thinking about it the right way!

We have been talking a lot about influence. Perhaps you know more about "controlling" that influence than you are aware of. Let's see how good you are at creating an atmosphere that will help you do a bit of concentrated thinking. Here is one way I am certain you can do it.

From your collection of good memories, recall some pleasant, colorful place that has left a pleasant taste in your memory. It could be indoors or outdoors, some place you have visited often, or an enchanted site you visited a long time ago. But what you are recalling is an Elysian spot that has just the right atmosphere for you, sort of a personal paradise.

Visit your private world

Yours might be like a favorite spot of mine. It's on top of a little hill on a California ranch that my family and I own. I can go up there and see for miles around. I can see and feel the work of nature and of man all around me, and yet be satisfied with just my own company. It's a wonderful spot for refreshing thinking. By mentally recalling this spot, I am there right now!

Whatever your favorite "retreat" spot is, transport yourself there now, in your imagination, except, that this time, imagine that I am with you. I know that this would be an ideal situation in which we could pause and think about that promise for a few moments. Let us imagine that I have taken the book into my hands now, and that you are going to sit back while I read to you and that you listen with attentive willingness. Do this, and you have mentally created an atmosphere that is "right" for this moment. You have induced a desirable influence that will pay dividends in a most realistic manner. With the aid of this influence, let's briefly reconsider all that has been said so far in your book. Then let me show you clearly what is just ahead.

You know yourself better

We have defined your importance in the scheme of human life, and you have had some specific experiences which prove it. You have become aware of the all-powerful factor of influence, and you are much more aware of its effects than you ever have been before. I am sure that you have acquired a respect for influence, knowing as you do now how completely it affects your life. You now know much more about yourself, and about others. You know that influence has created all kinds of people, ranging from the "unfortunate," to the apparently "blessed" kind. I am sure that by now you have "classified" yourself as being similar to one of the "kinds" of people we have discussed and that you have a pretty clear picture of how past influences established you in that class.

But what is much more important, you now have a new picture of the kind of person you want to be. I concur with this "new look" idea. This is the way you should be. It is the way you will be, and that is a promise I assure you will be kept!

Face this question boldly

However, superimposed over this sketch of this new you could be a big question mark, saying: "Is it possible?" If this question mark is there, it does not mean that any of your thoughts should be censured. It simply means that you have become intelligently aware of what you need to make that picture clear and strong.

That question mark is there because you have become acutely aware of the need for more and more self-influence, in the future. We can remove the question mark by learning how to boost up self-influence; that help is just around the corner for you. But it must be a specific approach, both as to the structure of that question mark and as to your conduct in using that help. So, what about that question mark?

You will find an interpretation of your question mark in the explanation that follows. It is related to a similar enigma in the lives of others, as well as in your life.

There seems to be an undue amount of pressure on your life from outside influences. There seems to be an inevitable pattern to the influences which surround you. So many of them seem to be controlled by circumstances that would bear down on you like ponderous steam rollers, if you tried to resist them. These could be things like your financial status and the apparent "outside" influences affecting it. Or they could be like any plans you have for the future and the apparently unpredictable, and possibly disturbing, influences that might affect them.

The effects of wrong influence

Some of the apparent inevitableness of this outside influence is reflected in everyday experiences. Too many times you have said: "It's right on the tip of my tongue, but . . ." Self-influence was here overpowered by outside influence that prevented you from expressing yourself adequately. Often you have foregone a desirable activity with the resigned expression of, "The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak." You wanted to do something, but the outside influence of apparently unwanted fatigue made you unwillingly withdraw. Many times you have said to yourself: "If I had only done this, instead of that, the outcome would have been much better." In such cases, outside influences negatively dominated your capacity for good judgment. And then there were the times you berated yourself with: "If I had only seen what was coming, I'd have acted differently." Actually, in such cases, you were in a "fog" of outside influences that caused you to make fuzzy decisions. And, of course, there have been those recurring thoughts that come after discussions you have been part of. In retrospect, you can think of all kinds of wonderful things you could have said. Here, outside influences had infiltrated into your conscious mind, blocking out the use of your fine resources for contributing "good ideas" at the right time.

Yet, in the face of all of this, you now know what your choices of action would be in the future, if you could influence yourself to act according to those choices. The question is "how" to influence yourself, isn't it?

Good things aren't cheap

You see that the answer is related to personal actions that have high "price tags" on them, and you have some doubt as to whether your personal resources are great enough for you to afford these good things. All good things have high "price tags" on them, but, through the power of self-influence, there isn't a single one that you can't afford!

Among these high "priced" personal actions, you now see the need for the self-influence of more good judgment, a better score on decisions, good timing, the display of good ideas, the fire of enthusiasm and a maintained sense of well-being.

Does not all of this about sum up the structure of that question mark about you and self-influence? Good! This sets a pattern of action, with the answers helping you establish yourself as the kind of a person you should be. However, it could appear as though you would have to be some kind of a super-being to switch the pattern of influence in your life. Tackling it all alone could add a discouraging note to the whole idea. But you do not have to go it alone! You have a "partner" more than willing to give you a helping hand. In fact, if you don't bring this "partner" into the game with you, you won't even get to first base in perfecting the pattern of self-influence in your life.

A perfect partnership

You met this "partner" earlier in your book. You have already had enough good experience with it to have faith in it. This partner of yours is, of course, your subconscious mind, and its power is at your command to give you control of influence in your life. What your subconscious partner can and will do for you is this: It will change the predominate pattern of influence in your life from outside to inside, from uncontrolled outside influence pressure to controlled, self-influenced power inside of you. It will put the "balance of power" in your hands!

Let's consider what kind of a partner your subconscious is. A partner, of course, should support you, should share experiences with you, should participate with you in everything you do and should be on your side. That's the kind of a partner your subconscious is. It has always been willing to be such. What's more, there isn't anything new about this. The subconscious has always been the key to self-influence, for all time and for all people.

Don't go it alone

Every "self-made" person every person of importance has formed a working alliance with this partner. No one ever went it alone in a progressive, successful life. No one ever could, because the subconscious is the key to controlling the influence in everyone's life! What has happened, however, is that science has recently been able to define the subconscious and to give shape and form to its effects. Its power, and how to use it, is no longer a secret. The technique of using it has been developed by science in the hope that a better world would emerge from the effects of its power in the lives of individuals. The opportunity is freely given to you here to become a practitioner of the skill of subconscious self-influence.

You can be a creator and a controller

Subconscious self-influence means the creation and control of influences by yourself, for yourself. Your subconscious is a marvelous human machine. It might be likened to one of those "mechanical brains," those robot machines that seem to be able to come up with almost any kind of an answer. But your subconscious is capable of doing much more, because it is related to your spirit, to your soul. It is the core of a potential power which can make you be what you should be, act as you want to act and accomplish what you want to accomplish in life. Your subconscious can create positive influences and it can control your actions according to those influences. Thus, all elements of that "question mark" that is before you can be erased and that picture of the new you can be painted in permanent colors.

This is a good point to terminate our little chat and for me to hand the book back to you. It has been good to have these few moments to think things through, hasn't it? You know just where you stand now, and with the stimulating prospect of using subconscious self-influence, let's move on toward the next high point, to the point where you are using it deliberately.

Subconscious self-influence is the key

Step by step I am going to open up this treasure chest of the power of your subconscious. Each step of the way, your control over self-influence will increase. If there ever was any truth to the statement that "knowledge is power," it is doubly true about what is ahead for you.

Let's move along then. But remember, you are not alone! That partner of yours is going right along with you!

Incidentally, did you notice what happened to the atmosphere around you, when I suggested that we "move along"? It "broke the spell" of being in that imagined quiet spot, just thinking. The new atmosphere is one in which you anticipate doing something. Both were subconsciously created, by letting your subconscious be your working partner, to cause to happen what you wanted to happen. Remember this is an "ABC" step in relation to what is coming.

In Sum

You have a powerful partner your subconscious mind.

This partner will help you in developing and perfecting self-influence.

It will enable you to control your life.
 
Result Getting Projects

In this project, you will do something that will be a first experience, possibly, for you. But it will be something that you are going to do time and time again in the future and find stimulating and refreshing.

Now, instead of imagining yourself on a "retreat," actually set one up for yourself. It will take a bit of planning and stage setting. There is a time in the day when you can be by yourself, when you can be relaxed and undisturbed. Even fifteen minutes in the breakfast nook, after the rest of the household is in bed, will serve for this project. A half hour would be better, but then you can always have more retreat time tomorrow, and the next day.

At this quiet time, alone, but with your book in hand, come back again to this chapter. Re-read it. The contents are most important to you. Re-read it for greater conscious understanding and for greater subconscious impression. Do this, and in the atmosphere of this retreat, you will have a revelation of the power and the willingness of your subconscious to support objective thinking and objective decisions. Your understanding of the subject will be clear and bright and your anticipation of desirable action will be positive and promising. You may have this kind of an experience at any time, with a subject of importance to you, by holding a personal retreat, like this one. This technique is recommended as "standard procedure for you in the control of self-influenced action.

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